“I still don’t know if I got really lucky with the conditions, or really unlucky with the conditions,” I’ve been saying about my recent attempt to swim around Catalina Island. Marathon swimmers generally prefer to swim on calm days, as wind makes everything much more difficult. But if that’s all we want, we could just stay in protected rowing bays, small lakes, or swimming pools. I’m not going to lie, a sneaky little part of me wanted some wind, some energy in the water, something wild and daunting. If you’re going to charter a boat and organize a crew of kayakers and on-board supporters, you might as well do something you could never, ever do safely on your own. So, when the forecast came out for my swim window, predicting four to five foot swell and twenty-five knot winds, I was terrified I wouldn’t be allowed to swim, but I knew if I were, it would be the adventure of a lifetime.
Night One
As I emerged from my cozy bunk aboard The Bottom Scratcher, Captain Kevin pulled me aside on the deck, the wind roaring in our ears as we stood there, looking out across the sea. “How does this look to you?” He asked, gesturing toward the swells and white caps barely visible in the moonless night. I shrugged, “I mean it’s windy?” I turned to look at him. “Wait, is everything ok? You look concerned, what’s wrong?”
“Oh no, nothings wrong, I just wanted to see if this is, like, normal for you?”
“Kevin.” I smiled at him. “I swim in a lake, nothing about the ocean is normal to me”.
He laughed and shook his head. “How do you go from a lake to this?”
We went inside and I reassured him I’d be fine. As long as he felt it was safe, I would be able to swim. I told him I trusted him, he could just end the swim if necessary. Kevin has the rare ability to make everyone around him feel comfortable and safe. He’s exactly who you want around you if you’re going to do something scary and uncomfortable, like swim 40+ miles in the windy ocean swell, during a lightning storm… with sharks.
Once I was in the water, I focused on getting as calm and comfortable as possible. There was so much more stimulation than usual. After exiting Doctor’s Cove and heading counterclockwise past Arrow Point, we were heading directly into the wind. The water slipped past my arms underneath me and the white caps tossed my body here and there. I watched Barb, next to me in the kayak, the wind shoving her backwards and every which way. She had it so much worse, perched on top of the giant kayak like a human sail. That looks really hard, I thought to myself, cringing. Barb is one of the most experienced and skillful Catalina kayakers. Conditions were indeed challenging if she was being thrown around like that.
Michelle was the next kayaker to face the whipping winds and rolling swell. She paddled in like a woman on a mission and I watched in awe as she took strong, rapid strokes to bring the kayak up alongside me. Wow, badass, I muttered to myself underwater. Over my shoulder on a breath, I noticed a light flashing across the sky. And then again, the same thing a few breaths later. That can’t be lightning, I thought, pausing to gaze at the sky during a feed break. I’m terrified of lightning in the water, so I had to come up with another explanation. I think that’s a lighthouse, I said to myself in a soothing tone. Yes, most likely a lighthouse. I somehow managed to ignore the fact that the lighthouse was in the clouds not on land, and never flashing in the same place. I swam on.
There was no moon, and it was cloudy anyway, so the night was the darkest I’ve swam in. I’d taken a couple Benedryl to manage sea sickness before leaving the harbor, and then a couple more at 12:30, shortly after starting the swim. Still, somehow the world would start spinning around me anytime my body went vertical during feeds. I began keeping my eyes shut during this time, opening them just enough to locate the bottle Michelle was tossing to me in the water, and then slamming them shut again. I hoped dawn would come soon.
The Happy Light of Day
At first light, I began to shiver. This surprised me, because I’d been looking forward to the dopamine boost that often comes at dawn. Instead, I was cold, teeth rattling in my skull as I stroked along. When Gillian got in for her kayak shift, I told her about it.
“Morning is a low cortisol time, it should get better as you go,” she reassured me. Gillian thinks logically and rationally and has very good problem solving skills under pressure, most likely due to working for years as an emergency department doctor. On the boat, Ryland and Scott, quickly mixed new feeds for me to warm me up, and I noticed myself shivering less and less every thirty minute feed cycle, until finally the sun was out, the wind had settled, it was a beautiful day and the shivers had stopped completely. Then the dopamine hit in full force and I was the very happy swimmer I love to be. I made a game of calling out, “hi” to various people at various times while still swimming along. Kevin appeared outside the wheelhouse and waved at me. “Do the dance!” I begged. He smiled and did his goofy Kevin dance, and Gillian and I both chuckled with delight.
Soon, the wind picked up again, this time at our backs and whipping the water into larger and larger swells. I watched Gillian skillfully paddle around the waves as if she were paddling through whitewater rapids, which is something she’s highly experienced with. She said she almost flipped the kayak over a few times, but from my angle it looked as if she were born paddling that thing. It was impressive to watch and I mentally “sat back”, relaxed and allowed myself to be amazed.
In many ways, swimming with this much energy in the water (eventually 4-6 foot swell and 25 knot winds), is very challenging. On the other hand, if you aren’t pressuring yourself to go anywhere or do anything, it is FUN. Mentally, I was engaged the whole time, working on keeping my stroke balanced and rotating, while the wind chop hit me from one direction and swell from another. It was invigorating, exciting and made me feel the kind of aliveness I crave when I sign up for these adventures.
“This is the most interesting swim I’ve ever done,” I called out to Gillian. “I’m definitely not bored!”
China Point
Kevin was yelling something to her during a feed. “Kevin doesn’t want you to do backstroke until we get around this point,” she said. It dawned on me how challenging it must be to pilot a boat for a swimmer under these conditions. While I was swimming giddily along, the pilots (Kevin, Helen and Jerry) were tasked with navigating a straight line at 1.5-2 mph, while being pushed by current and swell, and trying to allow me to swim close to the boat, while also not letting me too close. These captains are some of the very few who have the skill and experience to do this safely. There is so much more involved than merely having a captain’s license. I mentally thanked them again for letting me swim despite conditions that would end most swims. I was having a blast!
Eventually Michelle got in, and we made it around China Point and were now headed mostly east toward the southern most point of the island. I confirmed I was allowed some backstroke, which was a welcome relief to my left wrist, which had developed a peculiar ache. Michelle negotiated the swell skillfully, looking surprisingly content to ride the waves up and down.
Then it was Barb’s turn again, who I was happy to see in the light of day, then Gillian again. Time was moving by and the sun was moving across the sky. I could tell my mood was a little wonky and I was starting to think too much about time, so I decided to do something else for awhile. Not in the mood for haiku, I wrote a pretty inappropriate limerick, which I recited to Gillian while backstroking, blushing and choking on my own giggles. She was also amused and we had ourselves a good laugh.
The water temperature was at a low point at the southern end of the island. The wind and swell were at our backs, but a strong current was coming off the island, stirring in the colder waters from below and creating a “distressed sea”. I was starting to shiver again and reported this to Gillian, just as a swell hit me from the side, signaling we were starting to turn north onto the leeward side of the island.
Night Two
Unfortunately, just as the conditions outside me began to improve, the conditions within me started to deteriorate rapidly. The first thing I can remember is shivering and arguing with Gillian about whether or not I’d finish the swim. She thought I would, whereas I wasn’t so sure and felt a sudden sense of pressure at the thought. Will everyone be upset with me if I can’t? I started to wonder. The water on the leeward side of the island was several degrees warmer, and the shivers subsided. I don’t care if it comes back and I have to shiver and shake all night, I told myself. I will finish this swim.
As the sun neared the horizon, the ache in my wrist was growing steadily worse, and I balled my hand into a fist, to keep the pressure off it and continued to limp along using mostly my right arm. The wrist had me worried and with the worry came a spiral of hopelessness, desperation and fear. Fear of disappointment, mostly other people’s disappointment. I’d already had the adventure of a lifetime, but was that how everyone who’d been working hard for me all day would see it?
Just swim, I said to myself, focusing once again on the swimming motions and the much kinder feel of the calmer water. Then there was some confusion about the glowsticks. The extra one for night two I’d pinned to my suit had long ago been swept away by the crazy conditions. I was trying to get more from the boat, and eventually Michelle just gave me some off her kayak, which I shoved down the front of my suit, hoping they would shine through the fabric well enough. I was down to just backstroke now, freestyle having become full of stabbing pains tearing through my wrist at every stroke, even with my left hand in a fist. I thought maybe I wouldn’t make it after all and then everyone would think I just wasted their time. They had all done their parts, I should be able to do mine.
Although my wrist was worrying me, I was even more concerned about my mind. I remember being emotionally disoriented and very scared “something would happen” and no one would notice. This was totally irrational, as there were at least half a dozen people on the boat looking at me at any given time. Staring up at the sky, I could see patterns swirling, creating fractals and textures in the darkness. I tried to blink them away, but couldn’t. What if I go crazy and damage my mind permanently, I found myself thinking. I looked up at Ryland sitting with his legs dangling over the edge of the boat, just keeping an eye on me. I wished he would just stay there all night.
I griped, hollered for caffeine, and complained some, but mostly I swam on until I just couldn’t anymore. And then I had a full on meltdown. In the water. In front of a boatload of people. Sobbing, I attempted to negotiate: could I touch land somewhere and count at least some of the 40 miles I’d gone so far? “No, that would not be allowed,” Barb relayed to me after the CCSF observers deliberated. I sobbed some more and begged the crew to tell me they wouldn’t hate me/be disappointed/think I was pathetic if I stopped. No one on board wanted to influence my decision in any way, so they said nothing. I’d not slept in forty hours now and felt certain their silence meant they already thought I was weak, dramatic and a quitter. I felt so embarrassed and exposed; I might as well have been in a high school cafeteria in my underwear. Of course, now I know that’s not what they thought at all and it seems really silly that I thought that.
Thankfully, Barb, still in the kayak, told me she was already proud of me and that I should try to continue if I could, but no one would be disappointed or upset with me if I didn’t. But what did I want? she asked. This reassurance was what I needed to think clearly about what I really care about. I’d already had the experience I’d hoped for and had loved it nearly the entire time. I’d swum forty-ish miles in twenty-two and a half hours, my second longest swim by duration. I suddenly remembered that I always want to protect my body and my relationship with swimming before any other priority, including finishing what I set out to do.
Finally, I’m weirdly proud to say, I got out of the water. Now, ten days later with my wits about me, I wonder what I was even thinking, trying to find a way to continue. My wrist swelled and was purple for a few days. It’s recovering, but is still painful and I don’t know how long it will take to fully heal. It took a week before my mind got better and I was able to feel like myself again. As soon as I got on the boat, Gillian, Kevin, Michelle, Barb, Ryland, Scott and Linda all made it crystal clear how proud of me they were and how they weren’t even the faintest bit disappointed. While talking with them on the boat, I could see a dimly lit forest of pine trees growing out of the ocean between us and the island. I couldn’t blink it away, it was just there and a validating reminder that I was definitely sleep deprived.
Post Swim
I had the world’s very best support after the swim too. Kevin had us all spend the night on the boat in the harbor and Lauren cooked us an amazing breakfast on board the next morning. We debriefed the whole swim and Ryland told me he saw a shark on the starboard side of the boat while I was swimming. “It was only a baby one though,” he said, gesturing with his hands about a yard apart.
Gillian, Barb and I hung out over the next couple days, discussing all the different nuances of the swim while I iced my swollen, painful, discolored wrist. Scott sent me one of the nicest texts I’ve ever gotten about swimming and Kevin called to say again how proud he was and make sure I wasn’t beating myself up anymore.
People speculated the unusual wrist injury was due to the increased pressure on it from the heavy swell. I’ve never had anything like that before and my shoulders still felt one hundred percent fine. Without the weather, would I have made it further? Almost certainly. But if I could trade a finish in placid conditions for a non-finish in the conditions I got, I’m not even sure I would.